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I am married and I want to spend the rest of my life with husband. I need to admit that we also have fights but you can never erase in every relationship. Although, this things happen we continue our love and devotion for each other. I can say that I cannot live the day without seeing him or I cannot write my article if I will not talk to him because he is my inspiration.

I heard much news about couples who choose to end their relationship. I feel bad because they waste a lot of time spending together and then nothing will happen good but I cannot blame them because each relationship are different. Here are some reasons why couples choose to end their relationship:

Attracted to another opposite sex

Men and woman find their selves falling for someone because they feel the love that they never saw in their partner. Our society is facing this problem and we need to admit that many people are experiencing it. If you want to leave your partner, you should need to admit your faults and explain the reasons why you fell out of love. You need to face the consequences besides you promise to spend the life together.

Independent

At the beginning, they want to be with their partner because they feel happy but sooner they realize they do not enough time for their selves and someone is dictating them already. They also feel that they do not have freedom and the opposite sex is holding their neck. The relationship stops because they want to be independent and do the things they really want without thinking about what other people will say.

Love for Alcohol and Drugs

No one loves to see his or her partner addicted to prohibited substance. It stops the good bond and result to violence. Love for Alcohol and Drugs is like killing your self and stop the people for loving you.

Different Views

People have different kinds of views and we need to admit that when we enter a relationship we need to understand and respect our partner. I observed that many couples are breaking up because of this. They do not want to be humble and they take it as a battle, which is very wrong.

Lack of Body Maintenance

I will never be shy because my husband is fat besides I am very proud of him but not all of the people around us think this way. Many couples want to stop their relationship because they think that the opposite sex is not attractive anymore. They are shy because they are not compatible to the way they look.

Easily get Mad

They say that patient is a virtue. In every relationship, we need this attitude to achieve happiness but many couples do not have this. They easily get mad and then shout to loud which can affect the feelings of opposite sex.

Comparing your relationship

Couples want to make their relationship to work. It is good to admire other couples relationship but it is not good comparing it to what you have because each person have different attitude and point of views.

Lack of Communication

Many couples do not really think about different issues. If they have fight they will not talk to each other but after few days or hours they will be fine without fixing the problem. You need to tackle first so that issues will not have additional and explode like a bomb.

Not enough time

Balancing your time is always important in every relationship. You need to think that there is someone waiting for you to spend your vacant time but mostly other opposite sex especially men spend their vacant time with friends and others without thinking that the partner needs time and attention coming from them.

Jealousy

In every relationship, trust is necessary. Therefore, never get jealous with something that you know that you’re partner will never do because you are only making things miserable. Learn to trust and give love.

Inability to bear Child

Family is not complete without children. Most couples are fighting because they do not have children. They want to have children to be their inspiration.

Pregnant issue

In our generation today there are many people who are getting married because the women is pregnant and the truth is they do not really love each other. They choose to be together because they are shy about what other people will say about them.

There is no such thing as perfect couple but there is such thing about couples that can be perfect for each other. It is not easy to commit your self in a relationship, you need to think many times before entering to it because in the end you are the only who will face the trials that will come in your way.

There is nothing wrong about deciding to slow about relationship. I can say that it is more good because you want to analyze it first and know what will happen next.