Posted by periwinkle on September 29, 2008 at 9:53 am
Believe it or not we can have friends in one minute but do you think everyone is being true to you? Well, i am experiencing this until now. I guess there are real people who really act good in front of you but they are all Human Plastic.
The truth is i am afraid to have friends again because they always makes me down. We talk, bonding together and we are friends but it does not mean that we are real friends. Did you get that? I hope so.
I believe it’s my fault also i need to watch my mouth before telling something. I guess it’s part of rushing again. I am totally ilogical when it comes to this point. I am afraid to fall again because of my word. Here are tips to know real friends.:
It takes time
You can tell them problems anytime but you will never know that they are full of it. Little by little they are turning out to be human plastic. It takes time to know.
Never makes you look stupid in front of other people
I believe they can throw up anything against you in front of people who already know you. I do not agree to them if they tell you bad things about people who do not know you because they will have bad impression about you.
Love your family
Friends should also court your family. They need to have bonding time with the whole gang. It is good when they know you inside and outside of the house.
Money Matters
I have experienced this and it feels bad. When i got money to give all their need, i am just like a queen they can all ask for help. I guess monkey’s really need banana’s, right?
There are only few things to know real friends but as i said it takes time. Friends are every where but real friends are not everywhere.
Posted by periwinkle on September 29, 2008 at 9:04 am
I am too young when i got married but i never regret about it. Well, there are still days that i am thinking about things like if i am not married and no baby. Sometimes i just want to give up but it makes me think that i will be totally looser. So, i just digg to it.
I feel happy when i got married but still have doubts. My dream for my family never came true and it makes me feel bad until now. They gave me everything i need but i never think about it. I am totally useless and black sheep of the family. Sometimes, i just want to cut my flesh to lessen the guilt i am feeling.
Nowadays, my head is full of anxiety. Everything is mix up and i do not want to do. I need to have serious talk i guess… To all those teenagers out there, you need to know about this tips:
Never rush Things
I used to be like this! I want everything on rush and i ends up rushing things about getting married too. I am totally young that time, imagine i am only 18 years old and i never think about what future will bring.
Think about your Studies
I study my lesson but people around me gives me a lot of doubt. I hate to be on section one because i never had chance to prove my self. They are all in serious mood but i am not like that. I want everything on fun but still learning things. Now, i want to finish my studies but there is no chance because i need to think about my daughter first.
Never believe easily
Learn to think about this! Guys have lots of promises but not everything is done. I hate to say this but i think that’s how it is.
Make your dream come true first
I had lots of dreams before but non of them came true. I dreamed to finish my studies but i end up studying nothing. Make your dream come true first before thinking about that stupid love! Girl, Mark my word!
Enjoy your young life
There are lot of things teenagers should experience like going out with friends. Believe it or not gimmicks our part of teenage life and you just need to balance everything. Remember to stop joining stupid non sense group with all this Human Plastic.
I believe that you need to think about your future life first. No one will help you but your self. So, live your life thinking about what’s good for you.
Posted by periwinkle on September 23, 2008 at 6:15 am
I just turn 18 when I got married. Maybe a lot of you are wondering if I am pregnant. Well, sorry to tell you I am not. Actually, it takes one year before I got pregnant. I am a mother now and I can feel the suffering but I do not regret of having my daughter because I prayed to God to have her.
Now, I am wondering about the teenagers who got pregnant to early. They did not finish their studies because of their pregnancy. I believe they still have the authority to study but some school does not allow them. Mostly they are being discriminated.
I know parents want their children to have better life but this generation. teenagers are more liberated. Many people commented about this issues and give advice to teenagers to be obedient and listen to all the things old people will say. Well, to help you find the answer why teenagers get pregnant here some reasons:
Too Strict Parents
I personally believe that if your parents are strict, you will tu r out to be the black sheep. You do not care about what they say and you feel that they are killing you. The tendency is you find yourself with a partner and do something prohibited. Teenagers may think twice but most them end up doing it because they want to be free from stress.
Too kind Parents
Do you think a teenager will not be black sheep if her parents are kind? That is a bad idea, parents may think that there teenagers will not do anything bad. The truth is your making them spoiled brat and at the end, she abuses your kindness. If she will do something with partner and got pregnant. What will you say ok? shocks! too bad….
Environment
The people around affects her Behavior specially friends. So, always check if she is going out with the right group. You need to observe them because teenagers act kind in front of parents but the truth is they are doing something bad.
Emotional need
Teenagers are more emotional. They find it hard to handle problems. If they feel weak, the partner will take advantage of the situation.
Curiosity
They saw it on television or read on the magazine and got curious. The teenagers find it challenging and wants to try it because they only think about the pleasure they will received.
All this reason can result to unwanted pregnancy because they are not thinking of what will happen on the future. Parents should be more careful in treating their children. They should not be strict nor to kind. Balancing the attitude of different attitude is necessary. The best way to prevent this kind of situation is to talk to them and let them know that you trust them so much and in that way they are afraid to broke your trust.
Posted by periwinkle on September 23, 2008 at 6:05 am
Eyes is important to keep us safe from moving. There are thousands of people who born blind and wishing that someday they will have chance to see the things that surrounds them. For the people who have the chance to see the beauty of surroundings, do not even care about the eyes that gives light.
I always hear same old problems of eyes like they see blurd, irritated and etc. I need to admit that I am one of those people. It was just lately when I realize what tatang is always telling me and he is very right. I had little irritation to my eyes due to using too much internet, sewing clothes and reading on the dark places.
Now, I learned my lesson and want to share some tips to maintain healthy vision. It is better to keep the eyes healthy than to wait for something that will happen in the future that can cause Blindness, irritation and more.
Avoid Smoking
I do not smoke but I learned in medical school that smoking can cause cataracts and macular degeneration. Cataract usual develop little by little that can cause Blindness while macular degeneration have difficulty in reading and identify faces mostly with the age of 50’s that also causes blindness.
Avoid rubbing
Do not try to touch your eyes and rub them because you are not sure about the cleanliness of your hand. Itchiness, fear to light and tear discharge can cause Sore eyes , it can be transmitted to different people.
Avoid using eyeglasses made for other people
Different kinds of people have different kinds of eyes. Do not try use the eyeglasses prescribed for other people because you will experience to have difficulty in reading and looking from far places.
Balancing the diet
Balancing the food your eating is not only for the eyes but for the whole body. Medical Expert always recommends eating foods rich in Vitamin A that includes green and yellow fruits and vegetables. Take note Too much Vitamin A can also be dangerous. It should not always be less than or more than.
Be on the Light
This is my big problem before, I love reading books. I used to read on dark places and sometimes I feel dizzy. My tatang always advice me to sleep to help my eyes rest and looking at green things to cool them.
Check Family History
You need to ask your family members specially parents, if there is a family history of eye diseases. It can help you to determine early, if you have. Go to Doctors for Check- ups to keep away from any risk.
Exercise Daily
Studies shows that simple exercise can help your eyes . You can do bicycling, walking and playing sport. It will lessen the chances of macular degeneration that causes Blindness. Aside from that, you can make sure that all the parts of your body are healthy.
Eyeglasses with UV Protection
Many use eyeglasses for fashion, it is not prohibited but you need to look for eyeglasses with UV Protection to help the eyes from harmful rays of the sun. If not you can have the big chance of having cataract that causes blindness.
Hairstyle not covering the eyes
There are many designs for the hair. Never choose design that covers the eyes because hair has microorganisms causing conjunctive or sore eyes. It causes itchiness, fear to light and tear discharge that can transmit to other people.
Monitor
If you feel something wrong with your eyes, which is not normal and go to Doctors for Check up. It is always better to act immediately than to say sorry in the end. Learn to Monitor and never ask advice for people who do have enough knowledge about it.
A person gifted with eyes should always be thankful. Caring for them is responsibility that we should always take into consideration. It will not benefit other people but yourself.
Make use of your eyes in good way, not for the worst that can stop you from keeping safe. I love my eyes so please keep on loving yours before it’s too late.
Posted by periwinkle on September 5, 2008 at 7:52 am
I am sure that many people throw their plastic bottles anywhere. Well, the garbage man will always be thankful to you because they can earn from everything you throw. It is good to help other people in this kind of way. What will you do, if you do not have enough money to sustain the needs of your family and you need to lessen the cost of your expenses? Kill me but Plastic Bottles can help. Learn the reasons how:
Trash can
I always watch Art Angel on channe7 every Saturday. Well, it is a show for kids but I enjoy watching it because I learn something you. I saw them making a Big Plastic Bottles into Trash Can with a Design. You can lessen the expenses, save the environment and encourage the people around you specially kids to throw their trash because of the cute design
Use for dishwashing Liquid
I only buy sachet of dishwashing liquid and I used Plastic Bottles to put it. We all know that dishwashing liquid needs to have additional water and plastic bottle is very helpful because you can check the exact amount of dishwashing liquids to use. Make sure to put label on it.
Flower Holder
I already did a flower holder before. All you need to do is to put design on the Plastic Bottles like old magazine, gift wraps and other paper materials. It should match the flower you will display. Believe me it’s beautiful, you just need to put love on what your doing.
Coin Keeper
I saw garbage kids putting their money on the small plastic bottles because they do not have wallet. I tried it many times and it works. You will never attempt to get money on it because you will be afraid that you cannot use it again.
Pen Holder
I am not rich kid so I decided to use Plastic Bottles as my Penholder. What I did is to cut the top of the bottle. I also cut a fabric and use string to cover the bottle. It was just simple as playing children’s stuff but for sure, it will benefit you and mother earth.
Car water
When traveling to another place, you need water for your car. It stops the cause of over heat. It is important for every owner of car and Plastic Bottles helps a lot. The truth is we are also using it.
Music Instrument
Many people love music and want to use instruments but we need to face reality that it cost too much. I saw many people who became popular because of using Plastic bottles as an instrument specially in caroling every Christmas.
Decoration
I observed that some of the house I visited have beautiful decoration and most of it are expensive. We can also use Plastic Bottles as decoration. You just need to be creative, have broad imagination and confident that you can come out with beautiful design.
Receipt Holder
I am thinking about doing a Receipt Holder using Plastic Bottles. All I need to do is cut the top of the bottle and put some design. It is also good idea to nail on the back of your room.
Toy Keeper
Big Plastic Bottle is what you need. Cut the top of the Plastic Bottles. Use fabric and string for covering. Design is also important to encourage the children’s to keep their toys on proper place.
If everyone of us will be creative and thinking about the feeling of mother earth. I am sure no country in the world will ever suffer because of garbage. I think one of the reasons why other people do not recycle because they have too much money, they can buy everything without thinking about the future.
Well, Rich or Poor it does not matter as long as your acting like true human caring for the environment. I hope many will appreciate and the try to the tips I provided.
Love in a relationship is always a blessing but breaking up is always included. There is no relationship without a fight, which mostly leads in breaking up. Many people wonder why two people still end up together. Well, that is the “Miracle of Love”.
There are Billions of people in this world but only one can makes you happy. If you want to bring him back, crying is not the solution. Facing the real world is what you need to do. At the beginning, you will find it hard to accept but eventually you will know the reasons and the good thing about it. Here are tips to help you bring back the man you love:
Stand Strong
Show him the regular things you always do. Be strong whatever you will hear from other people especially about girls. Do not let him see you lonely and crying instead laugh about the issue and release the pain when no one is looking. If he found out about it, he will be the one to ask, if you still love him because you are not affected and standing strong after what happen.
Make him miss you
It does not mean that you need to stop seeing him specially if you are friends. Limit the time you spend together and sometimes make an excuse that you are too busy about many things. Do not make it sounds your avoiding him instead tell him that you are out with a guy friend. In that way, he will get jealous.
Learn to say “No”
Woman in a relationship always say “yes” to their partner to avoid fights. Now, you are not in the relationship you can say “No”, if you do not really agree. It will make him adore you once again because you are able to stand up for your own beliefs.
Wearing things coming from him
Wear things he bought for you. Let him see it and if he asks you with his eyes, never answer with your eyes. The best thing to do is to answer him straight like “You gave this to me, right? But we are still friends so I can wear it”. If he will hear you saying “friends” he will be shock and wonder if you still love him.
Woman use to cry in front of man but that strategy never works anymore. As a woman, you should be confident in every action you will do. Love needs little sacrifice to make the relationship last longer. Breaking up is usual action for man to do but if you learn to deal with it. He will personally give up and ask for your “yes” again.
Posted by periwinkle on September 3, 2008 at 7:31 am
You can say I am the most stupid, jerk, idiot girl on the earth but I believe everything in this world do not only have one purpose. Eversince, I was young I always go with experiment with lot of things from trash to things I am using. My family and other friends always call me crazy and I agree with them. I am crazy because I am wearing clothes and making things not acceptable for other people. Sometimes, they make me laugh because they actually copying what I am doing.
Everyday our companion in the morning is Toothbrush. Obviously, everyone have one and I think some of you do not know that toothbrush is not only for brushing teeth. We know that toothbrush cannot last forever; you always need to change it to a new one. What will you do to the brush you already used? Throw it away. Hey! Punk stop it, you can actually still use that and your asking me how? Simple just read this:
Cleaning your nails
Do not tell me yuck because I believe sooner or later you will use toothbrush for cleaning nails. I personally used it on my nails because I am comfortable handling it besides it was just like brushing my teeth.
Shoeshine
I saw my Tatang (Daddy) doing this ever since I was young. I remember asking him why does he used toothbrush and I received a simple answer “easy to use and no cost”. Since, then I also used it for my shoes and I have the assurance that each part of the shoe can be shine.
Cleaning Jewelry
I often clean my jewelry because I do not have time. If I have chance, I use toothbrush and toothpaste to clean them. It is easy to do and takes time to lessen the beauty of the jewelry.
Remove Stains
The toothbrush is suitable to clean stains especially to small ones. It focuses on the stain, which remove it instantly. Patience is always needed and make sure you have the right product to use to help toothbrush remove the stain.
Designing
I am not a painter or artist but I love to make things that suit my personality. I used toothbrush to help me put design on my clothes and I find it easy. You just really need to know your design first.
Hair Color
I bought a hair color before and I noticed that it does have any free comb and brush. I immediately think of toothbrush because they have the same function. You can color your hair little by little to achieve the look you want.
Cleaning Tiles
If you are patient and want to see a really good improvement, you can use toothbrush. It may be hard in your part but you can make sure that you have done a good job. It will take and effort but worth it.
Eyebrow design
One of the most attractive in our face is the eyebrow. If you do not have any eyeliner with brush, you can use toothbrush. It helps to design and gives emphasize to the beauty of your eyebrow.
Cleaning the Comb
Same old story, I used toothbrush to clean my comb. If you will only going to wash comb with liquid soap and scratch it, you are just like doing anything. Toothbrush can remove dirt on the hidden part.
Cleaning Tools
My husband uses his old toothbrush to clean car tools. Toothbrush has advantage because it can clean even the tiny dirt. I need to admit that it will take for you to finish cleaning but for sure you will satisfied.
There is nothing wrongusing Toothbrush again but you need to be careful and put the function of the toothbrush. Do not put anywhere because there is a big tendency that one of your family members will use it specially kids.
We have many expenses nowadays and for sure Toothbrush can help you lessen it. Learn to Recycle and reuse. Little things like this can help to manage waste for better future.
Posted by periwinkle on September 3, 2008 at 7:26 am
Many people around the globe are having difficulty in their lives. We know that nowadays almost all the price in the market is increasing and the salary is nor enough to sustain the needs of a family.Studies show that thousands of people around the globe do not have work. It is because of the less opportunity of the place where they belong. Every year, many graduates do not find work. Aside from that, non-graduates do not have the opportunity to work or if they do, they received low salary that does not sustain the needs of a family.
It is really hard to live with the world with full of sacrifice but on the other side fun and interesting. Nowadays, thousands of people graduates or non-graduates are having the opportunity to earn enough money for their family because of the internet. Many people who do not understand the field of internet thinks that pornography is the only way to earn money from it. I can say that they have the wrong idea about internet.
Internet is huge place where give and take process is needed. There is lots of opportunity that is easy and applicable to all the people. Everything will not be hard, if you know what qualities you posses. Many parents and non-parents stay at home for regular choir andearning money. Yes, it is possible and the good thing about it is you control the time you will use and the money you will put in your pocket. All you need to do is to have computer and internet connection. You do need to go to office and it helps a lot because it lessen your expenses and increase your monthly income. Here are some opportunities awaits you:
Affiliate
If you are industrious, good in communication, friendly and love to sell. You can apply for many companies looking for someone to help them sell different products and earn commission. It will be easy for you, if you know the product your selling , the price and the benefits of people will buy it.
Concierge
Many people who are busy looking for person to help them find something. It can a clothes, place, gadgets and many more. You need have lot of sources to find what you are looking for. Before applying, learn to know why you love the job and if you can handle pressure.
Culinary Consultant
If you love cooking and you want other people to learn, be a culinary consultant. There are huge opportunities especially for moms who give their best skills in cooking for their children. It will be easy for you to do the job if you know what your cooking.
E-Jujors
Instead of watching non sense, you can watch for trials. There are lot of lawyers who hire E jujors to help them decide to take the case or not. E jujors are people who study and watch about a certain case. They help Lawyers to get or not to get a case.
Guide on Line
Each and Every one is unique. There are knowledge you know while other people don’t. It is a give and take process. You help them to this they never encounter or give elaboration of a certain online. If your intention is to help, it will be easy to share. Money is only a bonus.
Home based Call Center Agent
Everyone is familiar with Call Center Agent. They answer costumer questions and act to the service needed. They handle email answering and live chat. If you want to work at home, you need to balance your time and your environment should be silent.
Mystery shopper
Many people love clothes even if our life today is very difficult. It is one way of releasing the stress. Many people specially professionals who are doing business but almost find time to hire someone to look clothes for them. There are thousands of people looking for a mystery shopper and internet is one of their top destination. Before, applying as a mystery shopper be honest to your taste and learn to know clients needs.
Medical Expert
Every year there are thousands of graduates in medical field and we need to admit that only half passes the examination. There is lots of work available for medical. I remember my Teachers question to me “Why did you study Nursing”I answered him sincerely that I want to help humanity. I believe every one in medical field have the same answer with me. If your one of us, you can be a Transcriptions, nurse on call and etc.
Online Tutor
I can say that there are thousands of people who loves to share information from other people and earn from it. We know that tutorial is normal, you need to meet the person your tutoring and then teach. Now, you can tutor in your own home. The right information, balancing of time, love the work your doing and looking for the give the best that you can to the person your tutoring.
Recruiter
If you have a friendly tongue, you can apply as a recruiter. This work is commission based. Everytime you recruit someone and hired in a company, you can earn money. For friendly, trustworthy and kind person this job will be possible without a sweat. Before applying you need to research about the company you are interested with.
Translator
Almost all people loves to travel different places, if you happen to be one of them and have the chance to learn enough of language , be a translator. Many people want to know what other people is saying and they want translator to help them. Be kind and the words that your translating should be exact.
Transcriber of Audio o text
It is not easy to convert audio, lecture, interviews and more to text. Companies are looking for someone to hire as a Transcriber they convert everything into text. Speeding in writing and good hearing skills is always needs.
Telemarketing
Good communication skills and Friendliness is advantage if you want to apply as a telemarketer. The salary depends on your negotiation with a company. It can be commission , per sale , per hour or per month.
Virtual Assistant
Everyone can be a virtual assistant. You need to be all in one that simply means trustworthy, goal oriented, good in communication skills, can handle pressure, love for the work, know how to balance time and knowledge to technical and secretarial work.
Writer
Almost all the people find it easy to release all the things they want to say through writing. It has been our companion for anything we do. There are thousands of people who will love to write the things you want to share which gives you the benefits of helping and earning money. At the first time, you will encounter pressure but if you look deep inside you, everything will be easy like talking to a friend and giving advice. You can be a Blogger , Technical writer, fashion writer and etc. The good thing about it is you handle what kind of job you want to pursue.
Web Developer
Internet is a world of website. There are thousands of people looking for help to maintain their website. If you have the background in developing a website, Internet is opening its door for you. The best thing about it is you can earn money per project or per hour. Depending on the negotiation you have with your client.
If you open your mind and read about what other people are saying, you will find it easy to go beyond the world of internet but accept that it is different from the world you used to know. It will take time and effort, you’re the one making your own salary so do the best you can.
If you want to know work on the internet, you do not need to pay for anything. There are many advertisements saying that you need to pay certain amount to get a job. Most of them are scams. Be patient to look for Jobs you want to land.
Posted by periwinkle on September 2, 2008 at 1:23 am
Today’s life is very stressful; we need to work hard to help our family. Most of the time, we are lack of sleep and it causes loss of focus, the mind and body do not work together to produce the right work needed. Studies shows if one person is lack of sleep, there is a big risk of becoming fat. Here the reasons why:
It is because of two hormones named Ghrelin and Leptin.
When a person only have 7 hours or less sleep, it increases the function of grhelin hormones which produce hunger and lessen the function of Leptin which helps to balance of food intake. The tendency is you eat more than you expected and we know that our mind is seconds late to recognize that you already eat enough to satisfy our hunger.
Do not have enough Exercise
Many people, who are lack of sleep, eat a lot and do not exercise daily. They feel restless and do not have time to do exercise even if they want.
Improper function of Hypothalamus
The ventromedial nucleus extreme lateral part of Hypothalamus has the responsibility to control the food eating of a person. If you are stress and you can think of eating, different kinds of food with high calories can result to increase of weight.
Sleeping 8 to 9 hours a day is important. The body and mind can process properly. It will help you to have a clear mind and healthy body. No one wants be restless and see their self dying little by little. It is better to make sure that you have enough sleep than to suffer of losing focus and becoming a fat.