How men react to pregnancy
Posted by punkypaige on Dec 11, 2008
There are many things in this world that we need to accomplish. As a woman, the most important role we have is to give birth and be the light of the family. It is the most exciting and interesting part in our life. We cannot wish anything more, if we have children that we can call our very own.
Pregnancy of a woman is not an easy stage. It can lead him to death or happiness but in the end it still feels good. Staying alive everyday is a blessing and every day spending with a child is too much blessing.
How about men? How do they react to pregnancy? God created men and women to build life together and to complete each other all lifelong. It simply means pregnancy will not happen without men. The reactions of the men depend on the situation they have.
Men who expect pregnancy always say ” we are pregnant” or ” we will be having our baby”. He always include his self to the situation of the partner. There are situation that he wants to go home early or spend the whole day with his newly born baby. He never forget to ask the feeling of his wife and the baby . Never ending “Thank you to God” is what he always say.
Men who do not expect Pregnancy are nervous. They do not know what to think but still happy deep inside their heart. There are things that bothering them but still trying to act like a real man. They also know that being a father is the most important role of a man.
Many people who tackles this issue will think different things. Obviously, men and women who promote abortion are very irresponsible. They do not have the authority to call parents or humans.
Why men don’t call after a date?
Posted by punkypaige on Dec 10, 2008
Dating is a fun time to make new friends and sooner or later build a strong foundation that will lead to romantic moments. Many people find dating interesting because it gives them opportunity to mingle with different people. The feeling of excitement and expectation is always included. Believe it or not, woman prepare a lot for a date. They get conscious about their look. The preparation will take hours before deciding on what clothes and make up to wear. They want to impress the guy that they will date.
When the time comes that they finally go on a date. They try to make their self comfortable but sometimes it can make their date turn off that will lead to not receving call after the little time together. Here are the following reasons:
Great Pretender
Pretending someone your not is a big mistake. It can give you a bad impression that can make a man turn off for the very first time you met. The more you show the real you, the more you receive good impression. It is either choose to be a real person or plastic.
Over Acting
There are interesting topics to talk about but watch out for your reaction. Exaggeration is not good especially knowing that it is your first time to meet.
Cellphone Addict
It is a date and you should only focus on it. Do not text while chatting on your date. It shows that you cannot focus on one thing at a time. Remember that there is time for everything.
Focus only on your self
You do not need to tell your date that you have everything. Staying low and thinking about your date can give you good impression. Never focus the conversation on you alone. It should be give and take process.
Non-sense
It is fun to have conversation with a person that posses a good humor. It is a big turn off, if you talk non-sense. He should learn from you and you learn from him.
Too much love for make up
It is better idea to use make up in a date because it adds beauty. You should remember that when you are in a date, never use make in front of him. Go to the bathroom to retouch.
Eye another guy
The meaning of date is taking the chance to meet a new person. Remember not to eye another guy. Your attention should only focus on your date.
Too perfectionist
It is not good idea to act perfectionist. Human are not perfect. So, you need to remember that you do not have the authority to judge people. Remember what Uncle Bob Marley say ” Don’t you look at me so smug and say I’m going bad.Who are you to judge me and the life that I live? I know that I’m not perfect and that I don’t claim to be. So before you point your fingers,Be sure your hands are clean.”
Sharing a simple date with someone can be bad or good but remember to act the real you. It simply means that you should not only think about yourself, think about other people too. Woman should be adorable and not the worst nightmare. Remember to do the right thing.
4 things woman wish they knew before getting married
Posted by punkypaige on Nov 29, 2008
Woman are the most precious stone that you cannot buy in any amount. There are lot of things a woman can do specially to satisfy men. Believe it or not, woman are very loving person. They are willing to give every thing to their partner even if there is nothing left for them. Sometimes they feel pain in their heart but keep on pretending that they are strong. When they found someone to sit with them and listen to their stories. It was the time where they finally release all the pain.
Admit it or not, there is a point in woman’s life where they wish to know situation or things before getting married. Some woman are facing the most difficult time in their life because the partner they choose to spend the rest of their life does not help and give them support. Most of them wants to give up and live a peaceful life.
It is hard to believe but this situation is really happening. No matter how hard you try to bring back the past to stop wishing for marriage with irresponsible man, you cannot do it. Here are following things woman wish to know before getting married:
handsome points are nothing
We need to admit that woman is also looking for men who have the good appearance but most of them end up wishing that they do not look for it. The main reason is because handsome men attract many girls and become boastful. It was also the time where they realize that they should look for someone who can provide her love and money.
Men act addleheaded
When woman fight with his partner. She wishes he knew that his guy is addleheaded, moron, selfish,irresponsible etc. This kind of situation makes her crazy.
marriage men are envy to their partner
It is obvious that men will not admit that they are envy about their partner’s achievement or the things they have. Men have the superiority attitude so it is hard to deal with them.
no time for their self
Marriage is give and take process but sometimes men are being selfish. They keep on asking why their partner needs to be alone sometimes and complaining when ask to take care of their children for a while. Most married woman feels that someone is holding their neck too tight that they cannot go anywhere.
Woman believe that love is what they want and need but sometimes they cannot stop thinking about different things they wish they knew before getting married. Getting married and spend the rest of your life with someone is really hard decision to make.
How to hook a guy?
Posted by punkypaige on Nov 20, 2008
Love is the most precious feeling in this world. Women loves to give and received this feeling coming from a guy. We need to admit that all guys have different mentality when it comes to relationship. Most of them are afraid of commitments and end cheating their partners. Many women want to show what they really feel but afraid to be just another girl. Nowadays, many women are intelligent enough to think of ways on how to hook a guy. A tactic that can makes any guy fall in love with you and keeps on trying to win your heart. Here are the following to tips help you:
Make an Excuse
It feels sad whenever a guy promise to call you but he does not. He only remembers you, when he needs someone to be with him. He is not bothered to think about what you really feel; he thinks that sorry is enough. Now, it is time for women to stop this issue. If a guy call you out of the blue and ask for a date, make an excuse. For sure, this guy will wonder and get curious about it. We need to admit that guys have the mentality of superiority and do not want any women to turn them down. Therefore, it is better to test his patience skills for you to say “yes”.
Say “No” if needed
There are situation that you need to speak your mind and say no to things that you do not believe in. Show what you really feel and stand for it. Never allow anyone to dictate things to you. This can give you a good impression because you are able to stand out for yourself. Many guys love woman with this kind of attitude.
Just a friend
Guys think that you are in a relationship already, if you feel the same feeling without even courting you on the right way. It is better that you let him meet your friends and introduce him as a close friend. For sure, this guy will freak out and confront you. Now, it is time for you to tell him that you are not in a relationship because he did not court you in a proper way. It is a good way to challenge him to try hard. If you do not see any action coming from him, it means you are just another girl for him.
Make him Jealous
Guys have the Ego that they always protect and very competitive. They do not want to see any women going out with them to eye another guy but it is a good idea for women to do that. It can help you to see the real intention of the guy. If you think that he is mad but pretend that he is not, it simply means that he is jealous.
The more you show a guy that you are hard to get, the more they want to have you. Make them think that you are the most precious stone and they need to work hard to have you. It is good to hook a guy before deciding to enter a relationship. It can help you to build strong loving relationship.
How to express love and affection?
Posted by punkypaige on Oct 31, 2008
People do not really like money but they just cannot stop looking and wanting it because we need it to survive. Many are still looking for ways to express love and affection in natural way without spending any cents but an effort.
It is the most important feeling you will show someone. You cannot buy love and affection in any amount. So, expressing it on the real way can also give you the satisfaction. Here are some ways to help you express your love:
Simple Words
Telling your partner that you wish to hold hands together, kiss, hugg and spend good memories.
Simple Action
Every little things you do like respecting, caring, appreciating, understanding and being sweet can show the real love your feeling.
Simple Thoughts
Sharing simple thoughts with your partner can show that , yotu are the most happiest person because you have him/her.
I believe in the saying every moment counts so seize the day! Show the love your feeling before it’s to late and feel sorry for yourself.
Why do young girls like older men?
Posted by punkypaige on Oct 31, 2008
Many people are asking about this issue. I personally believe on the saying “Age does not matter”. We cannot choose the age of the person we will to fall in love with. Love just happen and the most important thing we should think is we are lucky to feel it.
I know many people wants answer. Here are the following reasons to help you understand it:
Old men are more appreciative
They do not care how small or big it is, as long as you show an effort.
Old men are understanding
They already experienced different things, they can understand what young girls are going through.
Old men are sweet
They can make simple conversation turns into a sweet memories.
Old men are intelligent
They have many years of experiencing different situation so they are intelligent to make an action.
Old men are happy to be with
They can make you happy because they accept you for what you are.
Old men are good joker
They can make a bad mood into good because they know how to throw a joke and make you smile.
Old men are good in comforting young girls
If young girls feel down, old men will do anything just to make them feel comfortable.
Old men are good in making decision
They do not only think about their self. They think about the young girl, the situation and decided for the better.
I am not saying that young men cannot do this. It just something that old men can do naturally with honesty and love. It’s the reason why young girls like older men.
How to impress women?
Posted by punkypaige on Oct 31, 2008
There are men struggling how to make their self look impressive to the eyes of the women. Most of them are eager to know the secret behind the women’s taste.
Many men are trying hard but they just can’t do the right thing. I belive men knows that women have different taste but there are still common. Here are the following things men need to know:
Joker
Many women are hiding their feelings. Most of them are irritated to this jokers but deep inside they are enjoying the company.
Natural Attitude
Most of women will agree that they want to see the natural attitude of men. The reason behind this is to help them judge, if they can or cannot get along with this men.
Make it as a whole
To make women get easily impress, you should show your good intention, care and appreciate the things she have.
Be the best buddy or mentor
Almost all women admit that they are not really intelligent. Being the best bud or mentor can make them impress because you are willing to give them hand to improve.
Knows how to carry his self
Men have different style and Taste. Women do not really thing about this issues. As long as men knows how to carry his self no matter what clothes and situation he have.
Share your thoughts
I am sure that women are too busy with their different careers but they still have time to sit down and listen to men’s thoughts. In this way, women feels very important because you are willing to share your thoughts.
Love for your family
They feel happy and impress when they see you as a dedicated person who give full to your family.
Men should remember that fancy things are not what women really needs to get impress. They give extra effort to their physical look but deep inside, they are simple. So, it’s easy to impress them, if you know this secrets.
Why men cheat on women?
Posted by punkypaige on Oct 31, 2008
There are many things that we already know but keep on asking the answer to all this questions. Women always asked why do men cheat and most of the guys blame it to their genes. It is natural to see married or unmarried men to cheat to their partner. The reason behind this is the following:
Found difference from other women
Even if they do not want to look for another women, they just can stop it because they found other women very different from the women they already have.
New Challenge
We know that new challenge can give spices to our lives. Many men look for another women because they want to new challenge and it makes them feel excited like choosing new clothes to wear.
Because they are a men
Men have the mentality that they can cheat women because they are the head and women only bow and follow them.
They just can help it
There are men who born to cheat women. Even if how hard they tried, they just can help the feeling because it’s their real identity.
He do not like nagger and jealous women
Men wants trust from their partner. Once they hear them nag and get jealous even if they are not doing anything, that’s the time they will get evil.
No love anymore
Feelings come and go. Mostly, even if men tried to give some effort to bring back the love they have before, they cannot. The reason behind this is they just fall out of love.
Grab the Opportunity
Let us face the fact that women can get men anytime and anywhere but men cannot. So, if they see any chance they grab the opportunity and enjoy it.
Bedtimes is already cold
We know that women can live without doing something with a men but men cannot do it even if they tired so hard. So, they look for another women to keep the bed times with fire.
Can strive with someone else
Many men are looking for their compatible partner. If they found out that their current women is not like that, the tendency is they look for another women.
Too much Fighting
They do not like fight so if they have enough, they look for another women to make them feel happy.
They become rebelious
If they found out that their women is cheating on them. They will cheat also because they have the mentality that they are strong and women cannot kick them easily.
Men knows that cheating is bad but they keep on doing it. Women need to stop blaming them because they need to analyze why this things happen. Remember that everything should be in balance.
how to stop loving somebody
Posted by punkypaige on Oct 20, 2008
I observed that almost all people wants to find love. Everyone is going crazy when they start to talk about it. I believe that if love comes near you, it does not mean you need to say yes.
Many people are experiencing love but chooses to stop it for some reasons. I guess no one wants to have relationship, if you will see other people suffering because of it.
No matter how deep is the love, there is still ways to stop it. For sure, it will be very painful on the beginning but sooner when you realize the situation ,everything will be ok. Here are some tips to help you:
Learn to think about the situation
There are lot of things to think before you grab the chance to give and receive love. It is like stopping the love you have for someone who is already committed. Think about the family who will suffer, if you will pursue the relationship.
Learn to Pray
There is no problem that you cannot solve, if you will pray to God. Everything in this world have purpose. If you fall for someone and you think it will not be good for the two of you. Learn to pray, ask for guidance and forgiveness.
Learn to think about the person you love
Do not be selfish. Think about the person you love and think many times if your love for each other is worth fighting for.
Learn to think about yourself
It’s true that you go crazy, when your inlove but learn to think about yourself specially if you fall for someone who is already committed. Learn to think about your future.
I guess it’s never wrong to stop love specially when you are hurting another person. It is always free to Love but it should be on the right person, time and situation.
How to know if your in love?
Posted by punkypaige on Oct 5, 2008
I heard many people asking about this issue and i observe that everyone is active when they start talking about it. I believe it’s a part of our life and most of the time they are asking about how will you know if your in love. Actually, it’s not really hard to know. All you need to do is feel it with your heart. Here are some ways to let you know:
(a) Always looking for the person
(b) Always thinking about him/her
(c) Always talking about him
(d) Always treasure the day you spend together
(e) Always see the best on him/her
(f)Accepting the real him/her
(g) Enjoy his/her company
(h) Showing the real you
(i) Thinking about what is good for the two of you
(j) Comfortable talking with each other
(k) Always missing him/her
(l) understand him/her
(m) Always listen to what he/she wants to say
Many people can show love without your knowledge. So, be sure to read my list! Loving someone is another challenge for you to take. I believe that even if you are in love with each other it does not mean you need to be together. I think continue loving someone on silence is always a better idea and let time decide for the future.