GET QUOTECan you stop love?
Posted by punkypaige on Oct 4, 2008
I saw many people experiencing to fall in love with someone who are already committed for a lifetime. I personally know someone calling this people “stupid!” and always got mad about it before.
Suddenly, i never realize that this friend of mine is experiencing it now. She said they never plan to fall in love with each other, it just happen. Now, i know you need to stop judging people because sooner or later you will eat your own words.
I believe it’s like the song “We have the right love at the wrong time”. Actually, I am laugh about it now because it’s really the perfect song. She said acting like nothing happen really hurts but it’s the right way. I believe time heals but it will take much longer time.
I find this issue as human nature. People fall with someone other than their real partner but controlling yourself is the right thing to do. Well, she said her back hurts and suddenly continue on her heart. Wow! too much hurt i guess.
I wonder how can she stop it because personally i do not know. I believe she needs thousands of voice to clear her mind.
How to know real friends
Posted by punkypaige on Sep 29, 2008
Believe it or not we can have friends in one minute but do you think everyone is being true to you? Well, i am experiencing this until now. I guess there are real people who really act good in front of you but they are all Human Plastic.
The truth is i am afraid to have friends again because they always makes me down. We talk, bonding together and we are friends but it does not mean that we are real friends. Did you get that? I hope so.
I believe it’s my fault also i need to watch my mouth before telling something. I guess it’s part of rushing again. I am totally ilogical when it comes to this point. I am afraid to fall again because of my word. Here are tips to know real friends.:
It takes time
You can tell them problems anytime but you will never know that they are full of it. Little by little they are turning out to be human plastic. It takes time to know.
Never makes you look stupid in front of other people
I believe they can throw up anything against you in front of people who already know you. I do not agree to them if they tell you bad things about people who do not know you because they will have bad impression about you.
Love your family
Friends should also court your family. They need to have bonding time with the whole gang. It is good when they know you inside and outside of the house.
Money Matters
I have experienced this and it feels bad. When i got money to give all their need, i am just like a queen they can all ask for help. I guess monkey’s really need banana’s, right?
There are only few things to know real friends but as i said it takes time. Friends are every where but real friends are not everywhere.
Tips teenagers must know before getting serious in a relationship
Posted by punkypaige on Sep 29, 2008
I am too young when i got married but i never regret about it. Well, there are still days that i am thinking about things like if i am not married and no baby. Sometimes i just want to give up but it makes me think that i will be totally looser. So, i just digg to it.
I feel happy when i got married but still have doubts. My dream for my family never came true and it makes me feel bad until now. They gave me everything i need but i never think about it. I am totally useless and black sheep of the family. Sometimes, i just want to cut my flesh to lessen the guilt i am feeling.
Nowadays, my head is full of anxiety. Everything is mix up and i do not want to do. I need to have serious talk i guess… To all those teenagers out there, you need to know about this tips:
Never rush Things
I used to be like this! I want everything on rush and i ends up rushing things about getting married too. I am totally young that time, imagine i am only 18 years old and i never think about what future will bring.
Think about your Studies
I study my lesson but people around me gives me a lot of doubt. I hate to be on section one because i never had chance to prove my self. They are all in serious mood but i am not like that. I want everything on fun but still learning things. Now, i want to finish my studies but there is no chance because i need to think about my daughter first.
Never believe easily
Learn to think about this! Guys have lots of promises but not everything is done. I hate to say this but i think that’s how it is.
Make your dream come true first
I had lots of dreams before but non of them came true. I dreamed to finish my studies but i end up studying nothing. Make your dream come true first before thinking about that stupid love! Girl, Mark my word!
Enjoy your young life
There are lot of things teenagers should experience like going out with friends. Believe it or not gimmicks our part of teenage life and you just need to balance everything. Remember to stop joining stupid non sense group with all this Human Plastic.
I believe that you need to think about your future life first. No one will help you but your self. So, live your life thinking about what’s good for you.
Causes of Teenage pregnancy
Posted by punkypaige on Sep 23, 2008
I just turn 18 when I got married. Maybe a lot of you are wondering if I am pregnant. Well, sorry to tell you I am not. Actually, it takes one year before I got pregnant. I am a mother now and I can feel the suffering but I do not regret of having my daughter because I prayed to God to have her.
Now, I am wondering about the teenagers who got pregnant to early. They did not finish their studies because of their pregnancy. I believe they still have the authority to study but some school does not allow them. Mostly they are being discriminated.
I know parents want their children to have better life but this generation. teenagers are more liberated. Many people commented about this issues and give advice to teenagers to be obedient and listen to all the things old people will say. Well, to help you find the answer why teenagers get pregnant here some reasons:
Too Strict Parents
I personally believe that if your parents are strict, you will tu r out to be the black sheep. You do not care about what they say and you feel that they are killing you. The tendency is you find yourself with a partner and do something prohibited. Teenagers may think twice but most them end up doing it because they want to be free from stress.
Too kind Parents
Do you think a teenager will not be black sheep if her parents are kind? That is a bad idea, parents may think that there teenagers will not do anything bad. The truth is your making them spoiled brat and at the end, she abuses your kindness. If she will do something with partner and got pregnant. What will you say ok? shocks! too bad….
Environment
The people around affects her Behavior specially friends. So, always check if she is going out with the right group. You need to observe them because teenagers act kind in front of parents but the truth is they are doing something bad.
Emotional need
Teenagers are more emotional. They find it hard to handle problems. If they feel weak, the partner will take advantage of the situation.
Curiosity
They saw it on television or read on the magazine and got curious. The teenagers find it challenging and wants to try it because they only think about the pleasure they will received.
All this reason can result to unwanted pregnancy because they are not thinking of what will happen on the future. Parents should be more careful in treating their children. They should not be strict nor to kind. Balancing the attitude of different attitude is necessary. The best way to prevent this kind of situation is to talk to them and let them know that you trust them so much and in that way they are afraid to broke your trust.
How to bring back your Man again?
Posted by bratz on Sep 4, 2008
Love in a relationship is always a blessing but breaking up is always included. There is no relationship without a fight, which mostly leads in breaking up. Many people wonder why two people still end up together. Well, that is the “Miracle of Love”.
There are Billions of people in this world but only one can makes you happy. If you want to bring him back, crying is not the solution. Facing the real world is what you need to do. At the beginning, you will find it hard to accept but eventually you will know the reasons and the good thing about it. Here are tips to help you bring back the man you love:
Stand Strong
Show him the regular things you always do. Be strong whatever you will hear from other people especially about girls. Do not let him see you lonely and crying instead laugh about the issue and release the pain when no one is looking. If he found out about it, he will be the one to ask, if you still love him because you are not affected and standing strong after what happen.
Make him miss you
It does not mean that you need to stop seeing him specially if you are friends. Limit the time you spend together and sometimes make an excuse that you are too busy about many things. Do not make it sounds your avoiding him instead tell him that you are out with a guy friend. In that way, he will get jealous.
Learn to say “No”
Woman in a relationship always say “yes” to their partner to avoid fights. Now, you are not in the relationship you can say “No”, if you do not really agree. It will make him adore you once again because you are able to stand up for your own beliefs.
Wearing things coming from him
Wear things he bought for you. Let him see it and if he asks you with his eyes, never answer with your eyes. The best thing to do is to answer him straight like “You gave this to me, right? But we are still friends so I can wear it”. If he will hear you saying “friends” he will be shock and wonder if you still love him.
Woman use to cry in front of man but that strategy never works anymore. As a woman, you should be confident in every action you will do. Love needs little sacrifice to make the relationship last longer. Breaking up is usual action for man to do but if you learn to deal with it. He will personally give up and ask for your “yes” again.
8 Reasons why Marriage Couples are getting Fat
Posted by punkypaige on Jul 19, 2008
My husband and I got married too young. I observed that every year that we spend together he is getting fat. Well, I really do not but for the people around us it is a big issue. They want to know what happen to him. I do not want to sound boastful but my husband used to be thin ,when he was my boyfriend. I need to admit that when he became fat I got irritated to the way he look because I really cannot imagine that he will be like that.
Now, It is fine with me because the reason I marry him it is not because he is handsome and girls love him. No! It is not that…I marry him because I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. Well, to stop the people for keep on asking here are the reason why marriage people are getting fat:
Not in the Market
Many people say that when you are not looking for relationship because you already found someone. You do not mind your look anymore because there is no one to please. Well, I observed that if you want to attract someone you need to have a good body figure.
Advantage for the Marriage
There are many people getting jealous if they see their partner talking to someone. Therefore, other partner thinks that it is better to be fat so no one will get attracted to the way he/she looks and then it will stop the jealousy and maintain the good relationship of the marriage.
Not proper way of eating
Who will not be attracted to delicious food? Of course, no one. People loves to eat especially when at home. A person who knows how to make delicious food is attracting and convincing the people to eat more.
Eat excess food
If you see someone in the family who do not want to eat anymore and she have excess food. I am sure you will think that all the things today are expensive and you will just eat the excess food. They think that they spend money to buy food and someone will just threw it away like garbage.
Food Practice of the Partner
When you are married, you adopt your partner’s attitude. If he loves to eat unhealthy food and high calories you will end up eating them also because you are curious about the taste and want to try it.
Too much work
You spend the whole day working and then when you feel that your stomach wants to eat. You eat more and more because you think that you need to have more energy to do your job.
Psychological
You are eating and eating without knowing that your stomach does not want to eat anymore because it is full already. Mostly our mind contradict want our stomach wants to say. Marriage couples are not the only one who experiences this.
Do not have time for Exercise
Many couples do not have time to many things because they are busy. Mostly they forget to exercise. Married or not you should know how to exercise not only for your figure but also for your health.
Being fat is not a curse so if people keeps on asking. Let them know the reasons why you became fat. Remember not to get mad because they are only curious about it. No one is perfect in this world if you choose to be thin or fat always remember to maintain the right health.
6 Tips to Make Man Fall in Love with you
Posted by punkypaige on Jul 19, 2008
Women want to be love and pampered by men but mostly they left behind wishing that someday, somehow their crush and even love would fall for them. Many women think that it was impossible but the truth is everything is possible to this world, if you are true to yourself and pray to God.
In the beginning, it is hard because you think that you need to make an effort but the truth is you do not need to do anything except to act normal. If you want a man to fall in love with you here are some tips:
Be happy
Never be shy to show the world that you are happy. If you want to smile or laugh, please do so. It is good to start your day with a smile. If a man observes that you are a happy person, they want to know you better because they are curious of things that make you happy even if you are sad.
Be Beautiful
Many women think the appearance is more important to let people know that you are beautiful. Remember that God did not created ugly human, you just need to know how to handle yourself. Make an effort to look beautiful like wearing clothes to help you look better, use make up, spray perfume and many more but never do it too much. Too much is wrong. The most important is to have good attitude.
Be yourself
You can get attention from a man if you do not pretend to be someone you are not because in the end you are the one who will suffer. Show the real you, you do not need to give more effort. All you have to do is act normal. If you want it, show it and if you do not want it, show it. In that way you can show that, you are true and loyal.
Be Confident
Always be Confident to all the things you will say and believe. You should always be confident not only for a man but for yourself also. If you believe in something, shout it out and show that you are confident.
Be independent
You should learn how to work for yourself. Do not be dependant to people around you. Besides a man easily fall for independent women, because it shows that they know how to carry themselves in different situation.
Be Smart
You can throw all the things that you want to say but never forget to be smart. Never act things that can makes you look down. You should be smart in dealing with men because mostly they test how smart you are.
Many women think that they need love spell or pretend to be someone to have the love they want but it is not a good idea. If you want a man to fall in love with you, always be yourself. Remember than men do not want fake attitude. They want the real you and nothing but the real you.
12 Reasons why Couples Break up
Posted by punkypaige on Jul 19, 2008
I am married and I want to spend the rest of my life with husband. I need to admit that we also have fights but you can never erase in every relationship. Although, this things happen we continue our love and devotion for each other. I can say that I cannot live the day without seeing him or I cannot write my article if I will not talk to him because he is my inspiration.
I heard much news about couples who choose to end their relationship. I feel bad because they waste a lot of time spending together and then nothing will happen good but I cannot blame them because each relationship are different. Here are some reasons why couples choose to end their relationship:
Attracted to another opposite sex
Men and woman find their selves falling for someone because they feel the love that they never saw in their partner. Our society is facing this problem and we need to admit that many people are experiencing it. If you want to leave your partner, you should need to admit your faults and explain the reasons why you fell out of love. You need to face the consequences besides you promise to spend the life together.
Independent
At the beginning, they want to be with their partner because they feel happy but sooner they realize they do not enough time for their selves and someone is dictating them already. They also feel that they do not have freedom and the opposite sex is holding their neck. The relationship stops because they want to be independent and do the things they really want without thinking about what other people will say.
Love for Alcohol and Drugs
No one loves to see his or her partner addicted to prohibited substance. It stops the good bond and result to violence. Love for Alcohol and Drugs is like killing your self and stop the people for loving you.
Different Views
People have different kinds of views and we need to admit that when we enter a relationship we need to understand and respect our partner. I observed that many couples are breaking up because of this. They do not want to be humble and they take it as a battle, which is very wrong.
Lack of Body Maintenance
I will never be shy because my husband is fat besides I am very proud of him but not all of the people around us think this way. Many couples want to stop their relationship because they think that the opposite sex is not attractive anymore. They are shy because they are not compatible to the way they look.
Easily get Mad
They say that patient is a virtue. In every relationship, we need this attitude to achieve happiness but many couples do not have this. They easily get mad and then shout to loud which can affect the feelings of opposite sex.
Comparing your relationship
Couples want to make their relationship to work. It is good to admire other couples relationship but it is not good comparing it to what you have because each person have different attitude and point of views.
Lack of Communication
Many couples do not really think about different issues. If they have fight they will not talk to each other but after few days or hours they will be fine without fixing the problem. You need to tackle first so that issues will not have additional and explode like a bomb.
Not enough time
Balancing your time is always important in every relationship. You need to think that there is someone waiting for you to spend your vacant time but mostly other opposite sex especially men spend their vacant time with friends and others without thinking that the partner needs time and attention coming from them.
Jealousy
In every relationship, trust is necessary. Therefore, never get jealous with something that you know that you’re partner will never do because you are only making things miserable. Learn to trust and give love.
Inability to bear Child
Family is not complete without children. Most couples are fighting because they do not have children. They want to have children to be their inspiration.
Pregnant issue
In our generation today there are many people who are getting married because the women is pregnant and the truth is they do not really love each other. They choose to be together because they are shy about what other people will say about them.
There is no such thing as perfect couple but there is such thing about couples that can be perfect for each other. It is not easy to commit your self in a relationship, you need to think many times before entering to it because in the end you are the only who will face the trials that will come in your way.