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I just turn 18 when I got married. Maybe a lot of you are wondering if I am pregnant. Well, sorry to tell you I am not. Actually, it takes one year before I got pregnant. I am a mother now and I can feel the suffering but I do not regret of having my daughter because I prayed to God to have her.

Now, I am wondering about the teenagers who got pregnant to early. They did not finish their studies because of their pregnancy. I believe they still have the authority to study but some school does not allow them. Mostly they are being discriminated.

I know parents want their children to have better life but this generation. teenagers are more liberated. Many people commented about this issues and give advice to teenagers to be obedient and listen to all the things old people will say. Well, to help you find the answer why teenagers get pregnant here some reasons:

Too Strict Parents

           I personally believe that if your parents are strict, you  will tu r out to be the black sheep. You do not care about what they say and you feel that they are killing you. The tendency is you find yourself with a partner and do something prohibited. Teenagers may think twice but most them end up doing it because they want to be free from stress.

Too kind Parents

          Do you think a teenager will not be black sheep if her parents are kind? That is a bad idea, parents may think that there teenagers will not do anything bad. The truth is your making them spoiled brat and at the end, she abuses your kindness. If she will do something with partner and got pregnant. What will you say ok? shocks! too bad….

Environment

        The people around affects her Behavior specially  friends. So, always check if she is going out with the right group. You need to observe them because teenagers act kind in front of parents but the truth is they are doing something bad.

Emotional need

        Teenagers are more emotional. They find it hard to handle problems.  If they feel weak, the partner will take advantage of the situation.

Curiosity

        They saw it on television or read on the magazine and  got curious. The teenagers find it challenging and wants to try it because they only think about the pleasure they will received.

All this reason can result to unwanted pregnancy because they are not thinking of what will happen on the future. Parents should be more careful in treating their children. They should not be strict nor to kind. Balancing the attitude of different attitude is necessary. The best way to prevent this kind of situation is to talk to them and let them know that you trust them so much and in that way they are afraid to broke your trust.