Why men don’t call after a date?
Posted by punkypaige on Dec 10, 2008
Dating is a fun time to make new friends and sooner or later build a strong foundation that will lead to romantic moments. Many people find dating interesting because it gives them opportunity to mingle with different people. The feeling of excitement and expectation is always included. Believe it or not, woman prepare a lot for a date. They get conscious about their look. The preparation will take hours before deciding on what clothes and make up to wear. They want to impress the guy that they will date.
When the time comes that they finally go on a date. They try to make their self comfortable but sometimes it can make their date turn off that will lead to not receving call after the little time together. Here are the following reasons:
Great Pretender
Pretending someone your not is a big mistake. It can give you a bad impression that can make a man turn off for the very first time you met. The more you show the real you, the more you receive good impression. It is either choose to be a real person or plastic.
Over Acting
There are interesting topics to talk about but watch out for your reaction. Exaggeration is not good especially knowing that it is your first time to meet.
Cellphone Addict
It is a date and you should only focus on it. Do not text while chatting on your date. It shows that you cannot focus on one thing at a time. Remember that there is time for everything.
Focus only on your self
You do not need to tell your date that you have everything. Staying low and thinking about your date can give you good impression. Never focus the conversation on you alone. It should be give and take process.
Non-sense
It is fun to have conversation with a person that posses a good humor. It is a big turn off, if you talk non-sense. He should learn from you and you learn from him.
Too much love for make up
It is better idea to use make up in a date because it adds beauty. You should remember that when you are in a date, never use make in front of him. Go to the bathroom to retouch.
Eye another guy
The meaning of date is taking the chance to meet a new person. Remember not to eye another guy. Your attention should only focus on your date.
Too perfectionist
It is not good idea to act perfectionist. Human are not perfect. So, you need to remember that you do not have the authority to judge people. Remember what Uncle Bob Marley say ” Don’t you look at me so smug and say I’m going bad.Who are you to judge me and the life that I live? I know that I’m not perfect and that I don’t claim to be. So before you point your fingers,Be sure your hands are clean.”
Sharing a simple date with someone can be bad or good but remember to act the real you. It simply means that you should not only think about yourself, think about other people too. Woman should be adorable and not the worst nightmare. Remember to do the right thing.
Men have different reasons for not calling a woman. Let just say we have different likes and dislikes.
Remember how he acted in front of you when you dated with him. If he looked nervous, a little clumsy or something like that, maybe it\’s just that he\’s a too shy, don\’t know what to say on the phone.